The key to cultivating self-esteem and self-worth is nothing more.
1. Let the children see the example and repeat it.
If you've ever noticed a TV show or children's book, watch it. will find that the characters in the show or book Always wear only one outfit. The story progression in each episode will proceed in the same or similar manner. The background music is the original song that catches the children's ears. This is a psychology of inviting children. This repetitive nature helps them look forward to watching the show or giving the book and having fun while watching or reading.
for adults Doing the same thing over and over can be tedious. but for young children The fact that he sees something repeatedly will help build familiarity. self trust and confidence. For children, the world is a new and complex place. When a child sees something in the same way, he will remember it with great precision. then it will imitate and if they see it again in real life They will feel familiar, safe, and feel part of it. So during this time, parents have to try to find creative material or content for their children for them to read. and always suggest what is bad and inappropriate
2. Small things are worth the results.
Usually, kids don't expect anything more from their parents than being with their parents or their parents are interested in them, so just give them time to give them a little love. They are satisfied. Giving them love every day This will make him look forward and excited when that happens. For example, they know you'll hug him the same way every day when you come home. They will sing their favorite songs together on the way back from the nursery. On holiday mornings, I shared a dinner table with my parents. or put him to bed every night They will feel that their parents are by their side all the time.
As for parents who treat their children like this on a regular basis. You will feel that it is normal to show love to your child. And it will be natural to approach the child. when they grow You and him won't be that far apart. Gradually, giving them love must be gradually adjusted as they grow older.
3. Get them involved
It's important to get your kids involved in activities in the home, such as minor chores, until they feel familiar and can do it on a regular basis. Help them recognize that they are valuable. At least it is He will feel that there are people who need his help. Household chores for children to help with Then start with small tasks, such as taking clothes out of the basket for parents to wash. Pick up your own toys that you've finished playing. Bring a hand towel and place it on the dining table. or help spilled water on the table
This is to make it a habit for them to know that something is going on. And they have to do something to manage what's going on. At the same time, it will gradually build their problem-solving abilities. and self-esteem when helping others accomplish something They are ready to take on larger responsibilities depending on their age and qualifications, such as washing clothes or taking responsibility for their own homework without being warned. Parents must be warned that Don't do it yourself because you think it's faster. Or wait for him to grow up and assign tasks to do. because the old wood is definitely harder to bend than the young one.
Children will know that helping their others is valuable. The more he can help others The more he felt that he was worth it. As for the parents who work outside the home, they will get tired of the younger. Because they can trust their children to take care of the house, so it's a small duty that parents instill in their children to do regularly since childhood. It allows parents to be with their children more as well. and also benefit them in the future when you have to socialize and take responsibility for your own life
Every interaction that occurs between parents and children All of them play an important role in building self-esteem and self-worth. If you are uncertain or afraid that your child will feel this way. Consult a child psychology specialist. and give advice to practice Before they grow up, it becomes more difficult to live in society.